Relationship Advice

This week we have more balance between our bodies and our intellects and so are better able to appraise and digest the lessons we have been gathering of the material world, including our bodies.  | Read More

That is the question. This week I encourage you to practice being Self-ish. Not selfish, Self-ish.  | Read More

This week the energy tells us so very clearly that it is time, and it is needed, that we down tools and get laid back, and laid too if that is on the table, or the floor, or the kitchen bench.  | Read More

As a kid growing up I always thought it strange for us all to be identified as being in a race: The Human Race. Then it made more sense as I realized most people just race through life towards some distant goal, then die. Not my idea of a fun time at all, so at some point along the way I announced that I was resigning from The Human Race and creating The Human Stroll, and invited others to join me.

There are so many advantages to this. In fact I have yet to find one disadvantage, and it is easy and free!

For more go to:  http://303magazine.com/2013/04/love-guru-join-the-human-stroll  | Read More

I love the term “making love” because it clearly states that we are creating something new, something out of nothing, and that is exactly what we are actually doing. 

There are many ways to Make Love. One is to forgive others, and ourselves, for our transgressions. To not forgive can mean holding onto negative and destructive feelings like anger, resentment, revenge and bitterness and that only hurts ourselves, not the other person. Whereas to forgive them means we replace nastiness with love and compassion out of recognition that they, like us, make mistakes and can be real jerks at times. This means we also get to grow forgiveness and compassion for ourselves in our own faults and failings…   | Read More

This week the revolution is upon us and you have the choice to leap into the new openings with gusto, or to learn that resistance really is futile, because it will take you one way or the other. As my old mate Hunter Thompson said: “Buy the ticket, take the ride.” It might the theme for this whole year in many ways and right now it is peaking. See how it applies to your astrology sign by visiting my site, below. In the meantime the change will be easier if you see it as a healthy, natural normal expression of growth. Our “nice, normal” society teaches us…
For more, go to… http://303magazine.com/2013/04/love-guru-we-are-all-revolting  | Read More

So when we look at the astrology for this week, and the amazing confluence of rare energies, first you have to erase from your mind the garbage you heard about in that ludicrous book “Men are From Mars”, written by some effete androgen twink who was stuck in 1950’s beliefs. Its basic premise was that men and women - identified by devaluing millennia of accumulated wisdom since the Romans named their Gods and Goddesses - are a completely different species.  | Read More

The energies of this week are wild, alive, hot, sexual, loving and needing to break out and explore. Last week I wrote a blog “Get Kinky” and that continues this week. As well it involves our heart, love and value and the opportunity to bring them all together into the one space, at one time, instead of splitting the different aspects of ourselves off and compartmentalizing them.
Can you imagine being in a relationship where you are supported totally in being all of who you are, exploring new aspects of yourself, pushing your own boundaries to include new experiences, where your partner(s) revel in you discovering new areas of pleasure and creativity...  | Read More

It is time to break out after a period of deep renewal, and the energy breaking out is that of our creativity and sexuality; and further, it is pushing us hard to do so in new and unusual, unconventional and kinky ways. It is pushing us to push our limits far out past where they have been, to try new things, test new waters, play new games.  Practically, it means to follow something I have proposed for many years: “The only thing to do with temptation is to give into it!” …   | Read More

Most people enjoy sex and want to get really turned on, but the simple fact is that what you take into the bedroom is far more important than what you do there. For many people, sex is friction and release that feels good and feeds some needs along the way. But, to fully experience the deep pleasures of real sexual experience, you need to be turned on in your life, and so does your partner...

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