Relationship Advice

The energies of this week are wild, alive, unpredictable, sexual, loving and needing to break out and explore, to let go of the old and venture into the new. As well it involves our heart, love and value and the opportunity to bring them all together into the one space, at one time, instead of splitting the different aspects of ourselves off and compartmentalizing them.  | Read More

I do know only too well how tough that one is having spent a decade there, day to day.
And I do know how debilitating it is to heart, soul and spirits to keep the faith. For me there were some key daily (and sometimes hourly) practices I used.   | Read More

“The Truth… the whole Truth, and nothing but the Truth, so help me God.” No wonder they add “so help me God”. To know and tell the whole truth you will certainly need some of God’s help, or some God's help. This judicial oath is utterly misleading. It makes the absurd, arrogant, and audacious supposition that anyone could state the whole truth from a witness box.  | Read More

The cynics will say that there is no real magic in the world, that everything is explainable. The romantics will see magic and mystery in everything possible, often as a lovely misguided way to avoid reality. But in the middle, yes there is magic in the world, in life and in us.   | Read More

A friend posted on FB a cartoon... a black square with 2 wide-open white eyes in the middle and the words: “I know one door closes and another one opens, but these hallways are a bitch!”  | Read More

It is true: I am committed to laziness, but not as a rebellion against productivity or effectiveness but in fact to increase them. When I speak of laziness I speak of spending much time doing nothing.   | Read More

In our culture to be alone is akin to being a leper. Social judgements can be harsh. Social invitations dry up. What is wrong with you? Why has no-one chosen you? As well your own self-judgements can be fierce and destructive.   | Read More

Go to this blog article and get your FREE booklet on a very powerful process: writing a new life movie script for yourSelf. I have taught this to thousands of people around the world and it works!   | Read More

I love the term “making love” because it clearly states that we are creating something new, something out of nothing, and that is exactly what we are actually doing.   | Read More

I have been aware for a long time that at times in my life I would screw up and say aloud: “god I am brain dead.” I would hear myself say it and wonder why I said it and where it came from. Over time I realized I felt like a part of my brain WAS dead-ened since I was given some medication (only once) as a kid of about 9 to “settle me down” as I was a boppy double air fun, playful kid and they were both double water, rather serious and intense parents who could not handle TOO much fun!  | Read More