Relationship Advice

The question was asked of me: what is your leadership style and my inner voice immediately responded, “It’s not a style, it is a lifestyle.” I am the leader in my life, meaning I choose my visions and their qualities and I choose to follow those visions until I create them, and in the process I learn and grow enormously, take risks, leap over chasms and sometimes miss, claw my way out and test whether I am really committed to this enormity of my highest vision of me at any time, or not.  | Read More

The media pundits keep scratching their heads asking why Trump and his supporters in DC are doing what they are doing, and then giving all manner of explanations to their own questions. As rational people they keep seeking rational explanations within the system they live in.  | Read More

(VISIT my “AUSSIE RELATIONSHIP GURU” page on Facebook to see some of the photos I took on this day, at https://www.facebook.com/AussieRelationshipGuru).    On the evening of January 1, 2018, I wrote: “Today I have experienced as possibly the most wonderful day of my life. It has constantly felt like my Life was unfolding from moment to moment, choice to choice, steps and smiles along the way as all being in perfect alignment and harmony with where I was exactly meant to be, and thus I keep reminding myself that I have arrived in the place that I have held as my ideal vision of Me and my life and I have arrived. I made it, in both meanings of that term: I made it (manifested and created it), and I made it (finally arrived)!!  | Read More

America has a fine tradition of declaring war on social issues that any half-wit with an ounce of knowledge of history would know would always fail.  | Read More

A perfect example of America polluting the cultural lives of hundreds of millions of people beyond its own borders - affecting not just belief systems but quality of health care options, the imprisonment of uncounted thousands of people around the world in the American gulag, affecting the harmony and well-being of families, the denigration of citizens and the removal of simple rights - and that has been the illegality of a weed, a relative of the tomato plant, that George Washington himself declared would become the backbone of the American economy and that weed is of course: Marijuana, Reefer. Spliff, Ganja and a myriad other names along with exotic strands with different effects, such Maui Wowee, Durban Poison, AK47 and a hundred more.  | Read More

Good revolutionary energy for sure with the Sun just gone into Aquarius.  | Read More

One of the glaring aspects of American culture for the visiting (Austr)alien is the degree to which so many people live in a version of dominance and submissive power, not as conscious choice which is healthy and can be an extremely productive relationship - as we see in the military and other strong institutions, but as unconscious program-driven choices to be in control of the other.   | Read More

The process of rejuvenation is a desired goal and people spend billions of dollars to try to stay young, for re-juvenation is literally to become a juvenile (young person) again!  | Read More

One of the reasons is that I say "yes", based on 30 years of giving personal transformation seminars around the world to thousands of men and women, is that a large percentage of women who read this headline will immediately go into emotional reaction.
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I had the pleasure of living just off-campus in my ‘magic cottage’ in Boulder CO for several years, surrounded by students from this group, and most nights had from 6 to 20 crammed into my cottage until 2 or later in the morning.   | Read More